How do I order a lighter or stronger drink?

The answer

For a lighter drink, ask for something tall and fizzy, a spritz, a low-proof aperitif drink or a smaller pour; for a stronger, more spirit-focused one, ask for a stirred drink such as an old fashioned or a manhattan. Tell the bartender in plain language what you want. Remember that strong flavor and strong alcohol are not always the same thing, and many drinks hide their strength well, so pace yourself either way.